CHILD ACCESS MEDIATION TRAINING WORKSHOP

Mediation Matters
9816 Parkwood Dr
Bethesda, MD 20814

 

TABLE OF CONTENTS

A Initiating the Process  
     
A-1 What is Mediation page A-1
A-2 The Stages of Mediation page A-4
A-3 *Application Form for Mediation page A-5
A-4 *Personal Data and Information Form page A-7
A-5 First Session Outline page A-9
A-6  *Confidentiality Form page A-13
A-7 "Protecting Confidentiality in Mediation," David A. Hoffman page A-14
A-8 *Pre-Divorce Mediation Agreement page A-16
A-9 Public Sector Mediation page A-19
A-10 Paul Bohannon, "The Six Dimensions of Divorce" page A-21
A-11 Elizabeth Kubler-Ross, The Stages of Grieving page A-22
A-12 John Bowlby, Attachment page A-23
A-13 The Divorce Time-Line page A-24
A-14 The Wheel of Relationships page A-25
A-15 Divorce Mediation Bibliography page A-26
A-16 Key Questions Regarding a Mediation Privilege Statute page A-28
A-17 "Confidential, More or Less," by Christopher Honeyman page A-29
A-18 Intake page A-31
A-19 Stages of the Mediation Process page A-33
     
B Conflict and Paradigm  
     
B-1 Needs-Based Negotiation (based on Getting to Yes) page B-1
B-2 Caucus page B-2
B-3 Helpful Phrases in Mediation page B-3
B-4 Transformative Mediation page B-4
B-5 Baruch Bush & Joseph Folger, The Promise of Mediation page B-5
B-6 Empowerment and Recognition page B-6
B-7 Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Chart page B-7
B-8 Why Send To Lawyers, and What Do We Say When We do? page B-8
     
C Domestic Violence  
     
C-1 Bibliography page 1
C-2 Child Abuse page 2
C-3 Domestic Violence and Mediation page 9
C-4 Mediation & Spouse Abuse Guidelines page 14
C-5 No Violence Contract page15
C-6 Empowering Interventions with Battered Women page 16
C-7 AFM Task Force Draft Report page 21
C-8 Screening: Follow-Up Questionnaire page 23
C-9 A Clinical Typology of Interparental Violence in Disputed-Custody Divorces, by Janet Johnston and Linda Campbell page 24
C-10 Summary of Janet Johnston's Research on Profiles of Violence in Divorcing Families Disputing Custody page 29
C-11 "High-Conflict and Violent Divorcing Families: Findings on Children's Adjustment and Proposed Guidelines for the Resolution of Disputed Custody and Visitation" by Janet Johnston page 33
C-12 "Guidelines for Family Court Services Intervention When There Are Allegations of Domestic Violence," Mary Duryee page 46
C-13 Ontario Association for Family Mediation: Standards for Assessing Whether Mediation May be Appropriate in Families with Histories of Violence page 51
C-14 Maine Court Mediation Service Domestic Violence Policies page 52
C-15 Tolman Screening Model by Richard Tolman page 56
C-16 Dangerousness Assessment by Barbara Hunt page 59
C-17 Professor Desmond Ellis on Domestic Violence page 62
C-18 "Special Section: Domestic Violence," Journal of Marital & Family Therapy, Vol. 25, #3 (July, 1999), 275-364 page 63
C-19 Michele Bograd, "Battering and Couples Therapy: Universal Screening and Selection of Treatment Modality," JMFT, Vol. 25, #3 (July, 1999), 291-312 page 64
C-20 Virginia Goldner, "Morality and Multiplicity: Perspective on the Treatment of Violence in Intimate Life," JMFT, Vol. 25, #3 (July, 1999), 325-336 page 86
C-21 Sara Berns, Neil Jacobson, John Gottman, "Demand/Withdraw Interaction Patterns Between Different Types of Batterers and Their Spouses," JMFT, Vol. 25, #3 (July 1999), 337-348 page 98
     
F Parenting and Family Systems  
     
F-1 *"Mom's House/Dad's House" Chart page F-1
F-2 *Parenting Checklist page F-2
F-3 Framing Statements page F-4
F-4 *Bibliography on Adults, Children and Divorce page F-5
F-5 Books for Children Experiencing Divorce page F-13
F-6 Joint Custody Bibliography page F-17
F-7 *Mom's House/Dad's House Order Form page F-20
F-8 Developmental Guidelines for Residence and Visitation Arrangements page F-21
F-9 *Calendar for Flipchart page F-24
F-10 Family Systems page F-25
F-11 Triangles page F-26
F-12 Extended Overnights by Infants with the Other Parent Are O.K.,” by Joan Kelly & Michael Lamb page F-27
F-13 Child Support Checklist page F-28a
F-14 Age Appropriate Parenting Plans, Ohio Task Force on Family Law and Children page F-28b
F-15 "Using Child Development Research to Make Appropriate Custody and Access Decisions for Young Children" page F-57
F-16 "Children's Adjustment in Conflicted Marriage and Divorce: A Decade of Review of Research page F-65
     
G Drafting the Memorandum of Understanding  
     
G-1 *Cover Letter to Attorneys page G-1
G-2 Sample Child Support Provisions page G-2
G-3 Sample Memorandum of Agreement--Schneider page G-17
G-4 Sample Memorandum of Agreement--Zumeta page G-32
G-5 Court Model Agreement (Jacobson)--Schneider page G-44
G-6 Court Model Agreement (Nadick)--Schneider page G-45
G-7 Court Model Agreement (Gonzales)--Schneider. page G-49
G-8 Court Model Agreement (Golin)--Schneider page G-53
G-9 AFM: Sample Guideline Standard MOA page G-55
     
K Maryland State Materials  
     
K-1 Domestic Relations Law: Section 7: Grounds page K-1
K-2 Domestic Relations Law: Section 8: Property page K-5
K-3 Domestic Relations Law: Section 9: Custody page K-14
K-4 Domestic Relations Law: Section 11: Alimony page K-23
K-5 Domestic Relations Law: Section 12: Child Support page K-30
K-6 Maryland Court of Appeals Rule 17 on Mediator Qualifications, Training, Application, Fees, etc. page K-118
K-7 Maryland Administrative Office of the Courts Application to be Listed for Designation as a Mediator page K-134
K-8 SASI-CALC (Support Analysis Software, Inc.) page K-167
K-9 SASI-CALC: Maryland Shared Custody Work Sheet page K-171

Return to Child Access Mediation Training

Site Map

 

 
 

© 2005 Mediation Matters, Bethesda, Maryland. All rights reserved.